Let’s be honest—vow renewals can get expensive if you’re not careful. But they don’t have to. A little strategy, a few smart swaps, and a focus on what really matters can give you the celebration of your dreams without draining your savings.

Here’s how to plan a heartfelt, stylish, and joyful vow renewal—on a real-world budget.

1. Start With a Priority List

Before anything else, ask yourselves: What matters most?

Is it a dreamy outfit, great photos, incredible food, or an unforgettable playlist? Choose your top 2–3 must-haves and make everything else flexible.

This mindset frees up your budget for the things you’ll actually remember.

2. Shop Outside the Wedding Aisle

The word “wedding” adds an instant price hike. Whether you’re browsing gowns or décor, you can often find similar (or identical!) items in non-bridal sections for way less.

Try this instead:

• Shop prom and formalwear racks for white, blush, or champagne dresses—often stunning and way cheaper.
• Browse the clearance accessories in the fashion section—not the bridal one.
• For shoes, veils, and sparkle? Check vintage shops and local boutiques, not bridal chains.

Want something truly unique? Thrift a vintage dress or tux and have it tailored to fit your love story.

3. Rethink the Cake (and the Dessert Table)

Tiered fondant cakes are beautiful… and often hundreds of dollars. Instead, go for a dessert display that’s just as sweet—and way more fun.

Ideas to try:

• DIY cupcakes with pre-made mixes and frosting—then dress them up with edible flowers or cake toppers.
• Serve three or four mini cakes in different flavors instead of one big tiered cake.
• Invite close family to bring their signature dessert for a “family favorite” dessert table.

Guests will love the variety—and you’ll love the savings.

4. Time It Right

One of the easiest ways to save money? Choose the right time of day.

• Mid-afternoon ceremonies followed by light appetizers or cake and punch can be just as elegant as a dinner—and half the cost.
• Evening vow renewals after dinner let you skip a full meal and go straight to dessert, drinks, and dancing.
• Morning events are perfect for a brunch buffet with coffee, mimosas, and pastries.

Vendors are often cheaper for daytime events, too!

5. Get Creative with Decor & Rentals

Rentals and linens can eat up your budget fast—but with a little creativity, you can slash those costs.

Try this instead:

• Use flat sheets as tablecloths for rectangular tables—they’re cheap, washable, and come in tons of colors.
• Hit thrift stores for white round tablecloths, candle holders, vases, or vintage glassware.
• Skip chair covers entirely and opt for simple tied ribbons or greenery to elevate the look for less.

Nature also makes beautiful décor—clip greenery or branches from your yard for a rustic touch!

6. Tap Into Local Resale & Freebie Communities

Your community is a goldmine if you know where to look.

• Join Freecycle.org or your local Buy Nothing group—people give away everything from gowns to centerpieces.
• Check Facebook Marketplace and Craigslist for wedding leftovers—decor, attire, lighting, and more.
• Post a wish list. You’d be surprised how generous people are, especially with wedding items they no longer need.

Bonus: You’re also keeping things out of landfills—budget-friendly and eco-friendly.

7. Signature Drinks > Full Bar

Want to serve alcohol without going broke?

Solution: Skip the full bar and serve just 1–2 signature drinks (plus a non-alcoholic version). It’s fun, personal, and cuts way down on liquor and mixer costs.

Think seasonal flavors, fun names, and colorful garnishes for extra flair.

Final Thoughts: Budget Isn’t Boring—It’s Brilliant

Your vow renewal doesn’t have to be over-the-top to be over-the-moon amazing. With a few smart choices and a little creativity, you can throw a gorgeous, joy-filled celebration that feels luxurious—without the luxury price tag.

Spend smart. Celebrate well. Love big.